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• I'm allergic to latex. Are there any "safer sex" options for me that will protect me from STDs?"
  
  
• I’m afraid my boyfriend of 5 years is cheating on me.  I love him, but I’m afraid to have sex with him because of STDs. 
  
  
• Do tongue rings put me more at risk for HIV or STDs?
  
  
• Is it important to come out to my doctor?
  
  
• HIV/AIDS today
  
  
• I’ve never had an HIV test.  Can you tell me what’s involved?
  
  
• How risky is oral sex?  I always heard it was “safer sex.”
  
  
• I’ve had with about 15 or 20 guys in the last year. I feel fine. Should I get an STD checkup anyway?
  
  
• My boyfriend recently got treated for Chlamydia. Should I get tested and treated too?
  
  
• I have never been tested for an STD, and I don’t have any symptoms.  What is a “routine” test, should I get one, and how much does it cost?
  
  
• My ex-boyfriend has Hepatitis C.  Should I get tested too?
  
  
• Should I get tested for HPV and genital warts?  Do I need the vaccine? 
  
  
• What should I know about testicular cancer? Should I get tested?
  
  
• I’m looking for transgender healthcare and other trans-specific services. Where should I start?
  
  
• Where is the gay culture and social life in Connecticut, besides internet hookups and the bar scene? 
  
  
• Why does the Health Department need to be notified if I test positive for HIV or an STD?